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Stand for Something in a Timid World
Be yourself, everyone else is taken!
Dan Rockwell shares some wonderfully insightful ideas on standing firm for who you really are and what you truly believe!
Guest Post by Dan Rockwell
People aren’t energized by warm milk. Add some chocolate syrup. People follow leaders who stand for something. Declare what you believe and see who follows. Stand out skillfully because, “The nail that sticks out gets hammered down.”
4 Ways to Stand for Something:
#1. Have Conviction.
Don’t use anger as courage. People with conviction often seem angry. They’re offended when their values are violated by others. Shabby behaviors don’t defend high ideals. Your values are noble ideas. Present them with confidence, joy, and love. Don’t hate people who disagree. You’re ugly when you’re angry. Values deserve something better than scowls.
#2. Embrace Your Quirks.
You don’t stand out by blending in. Quirks are the fingerprints of personality. Don’t flaunt them. But don’t hide them either. The edges you’re tempted to smooth may be the traits people remember most.
#3. Have a Point of View.
Inspiring people have informed opinions. They don’t chase popular ideas, they challenge them. Disagree humbly. Stand tall, but don’t shout. Respectful disagreement earns attention and builds credibility. Be willing to change your point of view. Stubbornness doesn’t build confidence in others.
#4. Speak with Humility.
Strong opinions don’t require loud voices. Humility invites conversation. When you speak with grace, people lean in, not away. Humility serves the interest of others. Stand for something that brings value to others. A gentle tone isn’t weak, it’s inviting.
Try this:
- List three core values. How are you living them today?
- Share an alternative viewpoint in your next meeting.
- Share something quirky about yourself. Maybe you have a collection of Toy Story figurines.
Leaders lose themselves trying to fit in. They find themselves when they stand for something.
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